The SIMPLEST WAY TO SPARK YOUR ROMANCE

so that

you get your best friend back

without

going to couples counseling

in as little as

one short date night if you are pressed for time or

15 min a day          even if

you hardly remember your partner’s name

you have so little time together

ReConnect, Save your marriage 

even before you need to

Bring back that loving feeling

Did you know Studies show couples only spend avg 35 minutes all week talking and sharing about important  communication topics.  

( Brigham Young University and Colorado State University).

FINALLY A REMEDY for falling back in love again

SCIENTIFIC EVIDENCE + meaningful Relationship time

EQUALSUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS

Research also says that after the birth of their first child a couple’s satisfaction drops

75% and couples struggle with this challenge for over two years trying to reconnect and

stay engaged, but what we don’t realize is that the average couple spaces their children

apart by 2-3 years and has between 1 and 3 children.  Needless to say couples are

losing each other as the build a family.

 

 

if you make it this far the demands of work family and the children pull all your energy

and connection from the two of you.

your lack of connections brings on contempt and on opposite sides vibe

You slowly kill your connection until it just really doesn’t matter anymore if you do or not

Or

 YOU ARE NOT LUCKY AND THEY CONNECT WITH SOMETHING

OR SOMEONE ELSE FIRST

Facebook becomes their new best friend

introduce the evil villain

Give data, facts, statement or stats that support the need to act now. 

Shoot for recent numbers.

Spending Time Trying Pinterest and Facebook Advice

Costs You Your Most Valuable Resource

HOW CHOOSING OTHER SOLUTIONS CAN DO MORE

HARM THAN GOOD AND HOW TO AVOID OTHER

CRAZYMAKING ADVICE

It is so important that the tools and strategies you use come from

a trained expert in the field.  


You don’t have to wait until you HAVE TO GO TO COUPLES COUNSELING  to work with Someone who knows the research and then actually helps implement these tools daily with couples,  Relationship health is not fairytales and wishes anymore.  There is a science to support certain methods at certain times help couples bond and reconnect building a lasting love throughout a lifetime.

Work smarter not harder.  It matters how you care for your relationship

LET ME WARN YOU OF THE HAZARDS AHEAD OF TIME INSTEAD OF JUST TRUSTING YOUR LOVE TO CHANCE

That’s where I come in It is time to upgrade your relationship with science.

Who better to warn you of the hazards ahead of time than someone who hears hundreds of couples stories as they cry on my counseling couch

“If Only”           “I Wish”           “I should have known”

I help repair couples jacked relationships every day.  

If lucky they tow their banged and bumped and we overhaul

But sad to say those are the lucky ones who get a last chance.

You must believe me

The #1 Thing Broken Hearted Relationships wish is that they had taken more time?

made more space/ put a higher priority on the two of them

(aka Maintenance/Tune Ups)

I see first hand what happens when you have a perfectly good couples

to just rust and run out of gas waiting for

SOMEDAY WE”LL GET TO IT

why they should trust you instead to solve this problem

I am privileged to still work with couples who need Rapid Repair, Affair Recovery, or

Total Transformation……  It is truly a wonderful process to be part of as couples do this

work and makeover their marriage.  It’s hard work, the work of their lives and they do it.

  But oh the toll, the heartache and the investment of upwards of $2500.00 to work with

a specialist to rebuild.

I am Monica and it is My Mission to help couples (especially before it’s too bad) have the right tools at the right time.  Often we don’t actually know that we are doing too little, too late, or just not doing the maintenance required to actually live happily ever after.  The tools and techniques are designed to be easily  accessible and helpp do both reconnecting and even help some couples to do the minor repairs and upgrades that every couples’ heart needs before they need Marriage Transformation or Affair Recovery.  

So as part of  that Mission I am creating  easy access to  useable  tools and techniques to share all along the relationship.  My hope is it will  keep your hearts connected and in sync even when life gets crazy.  We are all too busy but, what’s it for if we don’t have the number one dream in our life, a happy healthy relationship.

For the past 25 years, I have helped as couples work to repair, rebuild, and rekindle then relate.  Over 1,000 couples have successfully proven that these tools are effective to creating a lasting connection.  In those years, I have learned and taught the most effective tools that I have seen help couples heal and fall back in lo

Oh by the way, I have been married for over 28 years to a wonderful partner and am the proud parent of 2 kids that I am  bravely launching into loving relationships and life.

Every week I see couples who say they wish they had paid more attention to their relationship over the years.  When I ask them why they didn’t they said, “I thought it was a phase” or “we just got busy and before we knew it we had “fallen out of love”   “we are just like roommates now”.  We should have done this years ago.  We wasted all this time blaming each other,        

As a couples and intimacy specialist I see couples in the office when a marriage makeover is needed.  Really they needed the tools you are about to get way before they ever saw me.  They needed them years earlier even before they were ever aware that things were going to fall apart.  But, they never planned on that, never knew about the repair and the investment that you must make to keep from ending up in my office later in life.

These couples  could have benefited years earlier from the  tools and techniques found in the Fall Back In Love Again ReConnecting Masterclass.  They didn’t have these tools unless their parents had them or the fairytales worked for them.

 Monica Houttuin, LCSW, CST is an Educator, Couples and Intimacy Specialist and Certified Sex Therapist.   She has been helping couples and families for 25 years, she is a national speaker and educator and creator of JUMP START YOUR HEARTS , a site devoted to helping people in relationships have a LIFE OF LOVE with the person they love while creating the life they dreamed.

HOW WILL YOUR LIVES CHANGE IF THIS PROBLEM WAS GONE FOREVER

Now I want you to take a deep breath and close your eyes

Remember Your First Kiss..

Imagine if  you walked in the door at the end of a long day.  Your eyes search for and find their SMILING FACE light up as they see you.

They stop what they’re doing and wrap their arms around you  then look deep in your eyes.

“I AM SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU.  WELCOME HOME”

OR

YOU WAKE UP IN THE MORNING not to checking Facebook on your phone, but to your partner smiling already looking at you  You didn’t eveN know.  They lean in and kiss you… all from a ReConnecting conversation you had the night before and you didn’t even have to worry about the “Right Words”

You hit the snooze bar and lie in one another’s arms dreaming about the fun plans you have together and remembering the sweet things they said the night before.

 

  • This is You- feeling connected, you smile and joke
  • This is You-Tackling the work of achieving your dreams together even if it does require plunging toilet and loads of dishes
  • This is You- Feeling Free and easy together
  • This is You-A Connected team again, you are on the same side
  • And oh so much more than just roommates.

 

Your days now start as the dream team you knew you could be.  

Both of you have full days on your plate but ReConnected and high spirited you head into your day knowing YOUR INTIMATE PARTNER and YOU have “GOT THIS”

Together all things seem better, easier, more doable.  You are on the same team again,

One Dream Team, looking forward to “Meet Up” by the day’s end.

Paint a picture of how life will be after the problem is solved (don’t refer to your product, but to a problem-free after).

  • This is You- feeling connected, you smile and joke
  • This is You-Tackling the work of achieving your dreams together even if it does require plunging toilet and loads of dishes
  • This is You- Feeling Free and easy together
  • This is You-A Connected team again, you are on the same side
  • And oh so much more than just roommates.

 

Your days now start as the dream team you knew you could be.  

HOW WILL YOU GET THERE?

 

I have a system that will get you there.

You are days away from ReConnecting with your partner

introduce the offer + bonuses + mockups

 

FALL BACK IN LOVE AGAIN

RECONNECTING MASTERCLASS

Your are less than one movie night away from reconnecting

with your partner in this 90minutes Reconnecting

MasterClass you will,

Know the methods to help mature couples fall back in love so you do not have to dread the one day “I don’t know if I love you anymore”.

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Not that you care, but secretly, know that People are  envious of how you look at each other
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Talk like you  used to when you  Felt that Falling In love feeling you once had

  • Access to Reconnecting Video to make reconnecting effortless and enjoyable activity
  • Access to all the best tools and techniques
  • Access to # worksheets so that you can jot in your personal story
  • Access to # checklists to cover all the important words without I don’t knows and fine trainwrecking your conversation
  • Access to all test tools and techniques

Action 1  Reconnecting Again Better Than Ever 

Action 2 Becoming Friends –

Action 3 Remember When The Story of Us- The story of the two of you lives inside your brain.  In the story is the code of how we set one another’s heart on fire.  Revisit  on purpose so that you can recapture and reenvision the feels of connection.

Action 4 Habits of Love-  To Love is an Action not a state of being we fall in and fall out rediscover all that you do to recapture the reconnection and state of loving

Action 5 Time Is A Gift-  Peer into the time bank of your relationship and infuse it with the right type of reconnecting not just more minutes with no purpose or outcome

Action 6 Getting To Know You- Find out new nooks and corners you may not know about one another,  revive and reimagine your parnter so that you can reconnect

Action 7 It Happens to Everyone Common Connecting Challenges– Science now tells us where and when you are likely to be challenged as a couple and what to do about it

Live Q&A from attendees

  • Access to Reconnecting Video to make reconnecting effortless and enjoyable activity
  • Access to all test tools and techniques
  • Access to # worksheets so that you can jot in your personal story
  • Access to # checklists to cover all the important words without I don’t knows and fine trainwrecking your conversation

Module 1: Title of Module 1 Goes Here

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Module 2: Title of Module 2 Goes Here

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Module 3: Title of Module 3 Goes Here

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fast action bonuses + points of urgency (if any)

Bonus: I Jump Start Your Hearts Toolkit I for ReConnecting

  • Bonus pack
  • Road map so that you know where the right tools can take you
  • Relationship audit  see where you are starting from
  • Success Tips  so that you are ready and primed to maximize your masterclass
  • Couple Dream Sheet so that all this reconnecting can lead you right into discussing your favorite topic, yep, the two of us and our drea

If there are any fast action bonuses or other points of urgency, mention these here.

Bonus: I Jump Start Your Hearts Toolkit I for ReConnecting

Bonus: I Jump Start Your Hearts Toolkit I for ReConnecting

  • Bonus pack
  • Road map so that you know where the right tools can take you
  • Relationship audit  see where you are starting from
  • Success Tips  so that you are ready and primed to maximize your masterclass
  • Couple Dream Sheet so that all this reconnecting can lead you right into discussing your favorite topic, yep, the two of us and our dream

Bonus II: Jump Start Your Hearts Audio Download

  • Bonus: II Jump Start Your Hearts Toolkit I for ReConnecting

  • ReConnecting On The Go Audio so that you can refresh and never forget

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Imagine each day of your life with your partner

at your side living your heart’s dream together

  • You feel connected, you smile and joke as you sit together at the end of the day for 15 minutes
  • You can tackle the work of achieving your dreams even if it does require plunging toilet and loads of dishes
  • You Feel Free and easy together talking without attacking
  • A Connected team again, you are on the same side
  • And oh so much more than just roommates.
  • Imagine….no more blank faces or
  • Thaw the ice and know what to talk about
  • Get Close even without solving all your problems first
  • Connect and deepen your friendship
  • Feel a different kind of date night

Paint a picture of their life WITH your solution. How a typical day would look like now that they have your THING.

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Talk like you  used to when you  Felt that Falling In love feeling you once had

Here Are Your Tools

  1. Use Bullets for emphasis to paint the picture
  2. Imagine….
  3. And no more…..
  4. Etc

first price introduction with all

KEY FEATURES & BONUSES

RECONNECTING MASTERCLASS

Access to Reconnecting Video to make reconnecting effortless and enjoyable activity

Access to all test tools and techniques Access to # worksheets so that you can jot in your personal story Access to # checklists to cover all the important words without I don’t knows and fine train wrecking your conversation Etiam maximus fringilla ante. Cras lectus mi, maximus nec accumsan in, feugiat quis ipsum.

$47

Fall Back In Love Again Reconnecting MasterClass

  • Video 3-5 so that you can hear and see and don’t have to read it in a book
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  • Pdf fill in the blanks with action steps so that you know exactly what to discuss

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  • Checklist

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Action packed activities

  • Action packed activities
  • Action packed activities

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  • Brain Tips to reboot your brains and bond so that you can minimize the talking and maximize the brain bypass to bonding again

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frequently asked questions about the product

All core questions and objections they may have need to be addressed here.

Q. Why An Online Masterclass?

A. It’s not a course but it is a precise masterclass with a collection of tools that are tried and true…..part of a bigger set of tools you will want to learn about  for successful relationships. It’s more like you get exactly the most useful tools just like a specialist would use, no wasting time, or just “spend more time together plan”…

Here’s how it works:

In the last 25 years as a couples and intimacy specialist i have  studied  and trained in the area of relationships, coping skills, problem solving, bonding and staying in love………

 

I create roadmaps for repairing and reconnecting couples every day in my office, documented roadmaps that get success.

  • I’ve Invested $150,00.00 n training and speciality focus on Couples and repairing and building love……….
  • An AASECT Certification as a Sex Therapist
  • Helped over 1,000 people solve their problems
  • As a professional spent  close to 20,000 hours  to help in repairing

           rekindling the love of marriage             

  • Revived the sexual intimacy in clients relationships
  • Along the way like any good professional I have documented and measured what works and what doesn’t
  • created to success.  These documented roadmaps lead to step-by-step tool when broken down.  This allows a way to repeat this success over and over using the right tools at the right time. The tools offered are all meat and no fluff.  Tools are all about taking action and getting results as quickly as possible

 

If you want to know more about what couples counseling looks like then you can visit my website where We do all the heavy repair after couples have either waited too long or injured one another.  Some couples come to have Rapid Results learning and implementing the tools as fast as

Q. Why $47

A. If you are thinking $47 what’s the catch? Then here are three reasons that should put your mind at ease:

$47 puts this information within reach of everyone…from newly staring out couples to young married with kids and even mature married couples. (And at $47, you shouldn’t have to rework your budget or go to the bank for a loan.  :’)
It weeds out the freebie-seekers.  I only want serious people who take action. And in my experience charging anything…even if it’s a buck….gets rid of 99% of people who download everything and just do nothing with it.
I looked at it and $47 is the best way I can get this information out to you early and often so you don’t have to go do something bigger if you put it off.

I also believe that once you experience this Fall Back In Love Again Reconnecting Masterclass you’ll want more and maybe…just maybe… you will want to come back, buy more, learn more and possible be a lifelong investment in your marriage.  Maybe you will turn into  marriage master.  
But that’s it…….
No fine print….no”hidden trials” ……no shenanigans…Just the information you need and the way to get the results you want.

Q. How long will it take to get access to Fall Back in Love Again/ReConnecting Masterclass

A.   It’s immediate.

Your downloads will come to you as soon as you complete your form and your information is processed. Then you go to your email and your links and access will be there.

Q. What if my partner will not watch this class what does that mean?

A. First of all, don’t force your partner to watch and don’t blame them for not being interested in learning or working on the relationship the same way that you would like to.  They may have a different way of looking at this or perhaps they have a different idea of how to bring connection.  In their minds they may not have really seen this as a problem yet. Maybe they don’t read about reconnecting and the risks to relationships like you do.  They might even think that “we” don’t have a problem “you” do.

Q. What should I do if they say it is my problem or they just kind of avoid this?

A. How about saying your are right.

Q. What should I do if they simply refuse to watch?

A. Well you cannot force someone to do something or manipulate them and still get the end result of feeling reconnected

Q. What should I do if they say it is my problem or they just kind of avoid this?

A. How about saying your are right.

Q. Should I not get the masterclass if it is just me? (needs an answer)

A.

Q.We have been married a long time, don’t relationships just dry up and get boring, isn’t that normal?

A. Absolutely not, we have been fed a myth, maybe when we lived to be 68 you could make it through the kids and just to retirement before you died.  Even then I would think that  a happy relationship would be key t your health and happiness.  Science tells us that folks in marriages with kindness tenderness and connection are significantly healthier.  It is no longer a want, it is a need and a right to continually feed and maintain a high quality of connection in your relationship.  It benefits everyone.  You know that being in a partnership takes different skills that the initial meeting.  We now know how couples can keep long lasting relationships alive and loving.

Q.What if my partner has cheated on me or there are really bad things should we just not even bother, is there any hope? (needs answer)

A.

Q. It seems like we are just going to be nice to each other and talk about only good stuff, how does this help with the problems we can’t solve?

A.   A lot of Online couple relationship classes force you to take a whole series of class. You don’t even know if online classes are I’ll print the two of you. You don’t know if you watch them or if we might need to jump ahead to one the one couples counseling. I want you to have and I don’t want to have to buy a course of many modules before you’re even ready for it. We have that is available to you but here’s a way that you can take a nibble before you buy the whole pie pie. I want you to be successful but I want you to use the lights will not just leave it and he threw up anytime

Q. What if I get it and I just don’t like it or we won’t watch it or I don’t know, we never do our homework, what then? (needs answer)

A.

REASONS TO BELIEVE THE CLAIMS AND THE EFFICACY OF THE PRODUCT

 

REASONS TO BELIEVE THE CLAIMS AND THE EFFICACY OF THE PRODUCT

 

REASONS TO BELIEVE THE CLAIMS AND THE EFFICACY OF THE PRODUCT

 

REASONS TO BELIEVE THE CLAIMS AND THE EFFICACY OF THE PRODUCT

 

REASONS TO BELIEVE THE CLAIMS AND THE EFFICACY OF THE PRODUCT

 

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Client case studies, testimonials, screenshots of results and other reasons they should trust the product and you.

RECONNECTING MASTERCLASS

Access to Reconnecting Video to make reconnecting effortless and enjoyable activity

Access to all test tools and techniques Access to # worksheets so that you can jot in your personal story Access to # checklists to cover all the important words without I don’t knows and fine train wrecking your conversation Etiam maximus fringilla ante. Cras lectus mi, maximus nec accumsan in, feugiat quis ipsum.

$47

Fall Back In Love Again With Reconnecting MasterClass

  • Video 3-5 so that you can hear and see and don’t have to read it in a book
  • Pdf with action steps so that you know exactly what to discuss
  • Checklist
  • Action packed activities
  • Brain Tips to reboot your brains and bond so that you can minimize the talking and maximize the brain bypass to bonding again

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Bonus: I Jump Start Your Hearts Toolkit I for ReConnecting

  • Bonus pack
  • Road map so that you know where the right tools can take you
  • Relationship audit  see where you are starting from
  • Success Tips  so that you are ready and primed to maximize your masterclass
  • Couple Dream Sheet so that all this reconnecting can lead you right into discussing your favorite topic, yep, the two of us and our drea

how is this different from all other solutions out there

HOW IS THIS DIFFERENT FROM ALL OTHER SOLUTIONS OUT THERE

A full comparison of how this is different from all the other similar solutions.

Their Product

  • Videos, Manuals by the dozens all dumped into your lap for you to just do at home all alone
  • Tons of information
  • But not so many as yours
  • Because it is not as good…

After various failed relationships and broken marriages, we both learned invaluable lessons and gained insights on how to apply positive habits towards sustaining a healthy relationship.

  • Having both attained a Graduate Certificate in Social Science ( but no actual hands on experience)

Professional Marriage Coaches (ICF ACSTH Certified & members of the International Coach Federation), we share the same passion in wanting to enhance couples’ lives and individuals seeking to establish relationship satisfaction.

MY PRODUCT

  • The right Tips and Tools delivered to you in the right order
  • Reconnecting Masterclass lets you have Monica right in your living room with time for the two of you to do the activity and then move on with the lesson.
  • Tons of data is not dumped in your laps Monica helps you actually HAVE the reconnecting conversation not just read about it and do it later
  • You get a live therapist using skills needed to promote the connecting
  • Uses all senses listening, reading, doing to utilize this skill and maximize couple connection.
  • Time efficient, less time than it takes to watch a movie together

A full comparison of how this is different from all the other similar solutions.

Other Communication Programs Fall Back In Love Again ReConnecting MasterClass
given by bloggers, youtubers, or advice columnists Not focused on this outcome and And just married people who also find marriage hard Created for you by a couples and intimacy specialist who uses this every day and sees it work
Designed to make you learn things that’s all Specifically designed to use the right tools in the shortest amount of words and time. It’s for doers.
Mostly theory and talk talk talk if given by a counselor Delivered in short punchy, hands on practical and doable parts
Long, drawn out hard to make time lots of homework pieces Short to the point to connect fast and actually complete reconnection
Random tactics and how tos that cover some areas and tell you to watch tutorials or go on date night. This leaves you in limbo because all the pieces of the puzzle are not right there for you. The complete how to for the specific desire you have not for weeks and years of to dos for the rest of your life.  Specific, time specific, targeted actions to take.  Very specific not improve my relationship, simply this one part of reconnecting.
Fuzzy and loose stories of what works for people, you have to wonder who are those people, do I just have to believe them when it says it works Specific strategies that a professional therapist knows works because I see it in my office.  It is exactly the same place that couples who are in a disaster marriage begin and they can reconnect.
ENLIGHTENING THEM WITH   *******COGNITIVE ( thinking not doing) KNOWLEDGE, USING PERCEPTION PROCESSING TO OVERCOME Kind of like your friends and family They have exhausted ourselves in our past relationships by over-providing, leaving very little for ourselves and neglecting personal self-care. We struggled with communication from not knowing how to express our thoughts and emotions effectively, which led to further misunderstandings and a build up resentments.

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COPYRIGHT ©  2017 JumpStartYourHearts all rights reserved   Notice: This information and educational product is for your education and entertainment  only and does not constitute professional mental health advice for your relationship as Monica Houttuin, LCSW CST has not evaluated you nor created a treatment plan for you.  It is always advisable to seek personalized relationship and mental health treatment from your doctor or other qualified mental health professional.

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